The spelling errors in this article needs to be corrected, especially the first one that has even reversed the meaning intended, which can mislead grieving spouses seeking for an encouragement.

A parent should have enough custody of the child to meet his own selfish interest like
1. a desire to get even with the ex-spouse.
2. forming a nuclear family in order to get a HDB flat
3. a desire to avoid being labeled as the “bad parent” and then have serious reservation about it.

The decision to give up custody of the child because of the following reasons is also because of the following reasons is also undesirable.
1. To avoid a custody battle
2. A lack of self confidence
3. Economic pressure
4. Guilt feelings

A child knows when he is wanted or rejected b the parent. The custodial parent ho gains custody in order…